When I Was Your Man

🎯 Learning Goal: Discuss the theme of regret and reflect on past decisions using the song “When I Was Your Man” by Bruno Mars.

In this lesson, you’ll explore how regrets can help us learn and grow. Through listening to “When I Was Your Man,” we’ll discuss Bruno Mars’s lyrics, share our own experiences of missed opportunities, and practice expressing regret in English.


Glossary

Regret (verb)

  • Definition: To feel sad, disappointed, or sorry about something you did or didn’t do.
  • Example: “I regret not studying harder for the exam.”

Regret (noun)

  • Definition: A feeling of sadness, disappointment, or sorrow about something in the past.
  • Example: “My biggest regret is not learning to play the piano when I was younger.”

Remember: When regret is a verb, it describes the action of feeling sorry. When it’s a noun, it describes the feeling itself.


💬 Let’s Talk

Think about a time when you regretted not doing something.

  • What does it mean to regret something?
  • Have you ever felt like you should have done something differently?

📺 Let’s Listen to the Song

  1. Listen to the song and complete the lyrics

💡 🗣️ Small Group Discussion

Join your assigned group in the breakout room and discuss the following:

  • What do you think Bruno Mars regrets most?
  • Can you relate to his regrets in any way?
  • What would you do if you could go back in time and make a different choice?
  • How can reflecting on regrets help us make better choices in the future?

Choose a group representative to share your discussion points with the class.

👩‍🏫 🙋‍♂️ 🙋‍♀️ Class Discussion

Let’s discuss together what we heard in the groups.

  • What were some similar or different ideas?
  • Any interesting thoughts about learning from regret?

✍️ Write About It

Write a short paragraph about something you regret not doing in the past. Explain what you learned from it and how you might handle a similar situation in the future.

What’s one thing you regret not doing? What did you learn?
Share your reflection in the comments below. 👇